So the one thing I'm noticing is that sometimes life gets in the way. I find it hard to punish my wife for failing to stick to a certain rule when I know she was busy with everyday things, work and school from sun up to sun down. Does anyone else have that problem?
What we are trying now is in the cases of like getting in the way, I give her a choice. Generally one is the spanking for failing to follow the rules, and the other choice is an extension of sorts with an added task. We are going to try this and see how it works for us.
Pardon the typos! This blog is written on my iPhone and iPad.